The Narthex
A Forgotten Man
God's love is our ultimate safety net
By Richard DellOrfano | March 13th 2019 2:26 PMI’ve lived in my lower class neighborhood since 1973 when I bought a four-bedroom house and rented rooms to other youths hoping to start a commune. California’s Prop 13 keeps my property tax low, whereas new buyers nowadays pay eight times as much. Sometimes it pays to be old. But…
READ FULL BLOG POSTMy Lenten Garden
Spiritual insights are derived from simple, earthly actions
By Richard DellOrfano | March 8th 2019 4:00 PMMy vegetable garden is a 4 x 10 planter box with gopher-proof screening and a weed-banning cloth. Its soil is enriched with root enzymes and minerals, wriggly worms, and rich humus. I nearly broke my back constructing it, but it was worth the anguish. I’ve got international participation from healthy,…
READ FULL BLOG POSTFollow the Money Trail
Sexual unchastity breeds in a context of luxury and power
By Richard DellOrfano | March 7th 2019 4:36 PMMy dad used to say whenever motives got confusing, "Follow the money trail." The contemporary Church hierarchy now has one thing on its mind and one only: money. If prejudice is the essence of evil, then this hierarchy is evil in its prejudice for cushy retirements, luxury lifestyles, glorious cathedrals,…
READ FULL BLOG POSTHave Love for One Another
Charity trumps points of disagreement
By Richard DellOrfano | February 28th 2019 4:47 PMYesterday in the public library I had a challenging conversation with a Protestant evangelical friend who holds the firm belief that the Bible is all she needs to live a holy life (Sola Scriptura). Her private interpretations of Scripture are the result of inward counsel and the Sunday preaching of…
READ FULL BLOG POSTHis Master's Voice
The faithful companion listens for God's whispers
By Richard DellOrfano | February 26th 2019 4:43 PMMother had a collection of vinyl records that I would listen to on a cold wintry day. Some of her vinyl had the interesting RCA Victor trademark label of a Jack Russell Terrier listening to an Edison bell-cylinder wind-up gramophone. The caption underneath read “His Master’s Voice,” with the cute…
READ FULL BLOG POSTSuffer the Little Children
Young kids are God’s gift to parents and to those who encounter them
By Richard DellOrfano | February 20th 2019 2:13 PMAfter facilitating a Tuesday senior writing group in the San Marcos County Library, I attended a chess club session held in the same conference room. Four game boards were set up on card tables and eight competitors were playing chess across from each other. At the far end a young…
READ FULL BLOG POSTBingo
Protestant churches survive without bingo and raffles
By Richard DellOrfano | February 18th 2019 6:40 PMOur local senior center holds a well-attended bingo game once a week. “B-10,” a moderator announces by microphone, and a hundred heads nod to scan their cards. It’s a good money maker for city services while providing a needed social event. Our local parish does the same to provide funding…
READ FULL BLOG POSTConduct for Learning
Three cheers for Catholic students who are taught good manners
By Richard DellOrfano | February 4th 2019 3:28 PMIt’s been over 50 years since I taught physics and math ― not the most popular subjects, compared to hands-on training in auto mechanics at a vocational trade school in Beacon Hill. My young students were a rambunctious lot, shooting spit balls and flying paper planes when I entered to…
READ FULL BLOG POSTInspired by Bishop Sheen
His zeal and charisma continue to stir hearts
By Richard DellOrfano | January 29th 2019 3:32 PMIt was 1953 when I found myself at 11 years old tuning into Bishop Fulton J. Sheen’s weekly Tuesday night commentaries on our black and white television. I don’t know how I got motivated to watch him every week, because my parents weren’t into Catholicism. I was raised a Catholic,…
READ FULL BLOG POSTThe Celibate Priesthood
Catholics in Germany and elsewhere have become skeptical of celibacy
By Richard DellOrfano | January 14th 2019 4:43 PMCardinal Marx has called for "new thinking" on sexual issues, including celibacy. His liberal perspective reflects pressure to end mandatory priestly celibacy, a contested issue since sexual freedom has become a core principle of modern German culture. Catholics there have become skeptical of celibacy. Last November, the lay Central Committee…
READ FULL BLOG POSTThe Twelve Tribes
Lay Catholics rarely experience close-knit community in parishes
By Richard DellOrfano | January 10th 2019 6:07 PMMy brother and his wife, a cousin and I ate at the Yellow Deli in Vista, California, on Monday evening, just before their departure back to New Hampshire. We had spent the day touring the restored Mission San Luis Rey and the nearby Prince of Peace Abbey. After eating, we…
READ FULL BLOG POSTLead Us Not into Tempation
Does God purposely test our worthiness?
By Richard DellOrfano | December 18th 2018 3:26 PMOne would think the hubris of Pope Francis knows no bounds, as he proposes we reinterpret and reword The Lord's Prayer. I suppose he thinks we have the wrong idea that God is purposely testing our worthiness. So? Maybe God is allowing all his children to be tempted. Ponder while…
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Screen time is having a detrimental effect on kids
By Richard DellOrfano | December 12th 2018 5:04 PMWhen I was a kid, coffee was served only to adults at our dinner table. Smoking was definitely a no-no, so we had to leave the dining room if a guest lit up a cigar. Even profanity was prohibited in our presence. The reason, of course, was that these would…
READ FULL BLOG POSTForbidden Fruit
All are tempted to partake of delicious pleasure without consequence
By Richard DellOrfano | November 26th 2018 6:59 PMThe archetypical image of the forbidden fruit in Genesis is the apple. Neither a Delicious nor a Gala nor a Fuji―just a plain apple. East Indians see the forbidden fruit as a banana. What actually hangs from The Tree of Life is the temptation to partake of delicious pleasure without…
READ FULL BLOG POSTPapal Pollution
The Pope has power over only one global problem
By Richard DellOrfano | November 12th 2018 3:51 PMPope Francis is humanely concerned with over a dozen man-made problems that even school kids would wonder why the world doesn’t do something about: plastics littering the oceans, deadly drug gangs in Mexico, insane wars sparked by the pride of men, murderous Christian persecutions in Muslim nations, materialistic culture and…
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