Conjugal Intimacy
IN LIGHT OF CREATION, FALL & REDEMPTION
It is almost a cliché to say that there is a lot of confusion today about the meaning of sexuality. Turn on your television set either at prime time or during the day, and you find programs glorifying every form of sexuality except marital sexuality. Homosexuality, premarital sex, infidelity, divorce, etc., are all held up as “alternative lifestyles.”
Conversely, it also is almost a cliché to say that the Roman Catholic faith is blessed with a clear vision of the meaning of sexuality. Yet this vision — beautiful and compelling as it is — is something to which Catholics often don’t do justice. In many cases we tend to be more definite about what we are against than about what we stand for. It is clear that we do not approve of premarital sex, infidelity, homosexuality, or masturbation. But we aren’t as clear and forceful in communicating the vision of what we stand for.
There is a triple theme in Catholic theology that applies to the whole human situation. It applies to man, marriage, and sexuality in marriage. This triple theme is Creation, Fall, and Redemption. The Creation theme tells us that everything in the universe is good and to be affirmed because God made it. The theme of the Fall tells us that creation has a major flaw running through it: sin. Fallen creation calls for the theme of Redemption, which tells us that Christ offers redemption to the universe and everything in it, including man, marriage, and conjugal intimacy. This article will look at man and marriage in light of the triple theme of Creation-Fall-Redemption, and thus arrive at a Roman Catholic understanding of marital intimacy.
Scripture presents man as created in the image of God. Because man is a reflection of God, we need to ask ourselves who God is. Revelation presents God to us as self-giving Love. God created us freely, and, in the act of creating us, gave himself to us. His act of creating us is self-giving. It is characterized by freedom and generosity. Although we certainly rejoice his heart, God did not create us primarily so that he could get something from us. He created us primarily to give us of his own fullness. The act of creation is an act of complete unselfishness. God is self-giving Love who seeks what is good for those he loves.
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